“Gratitude is
not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others” -Cicero
As the Thanksgiving holiday approaches, most of us are
thinking about turkey, stuffing, cranberries and pumpkin pie… and maybe how
we’re going to enjoy our feast in small portions. But somewhere in the back of our minds, we
know that this holiday is really about celebrating the “bounty” in our lives,
not just on our plates. It turns out
that the virtue of gratitude has some very real physical and mental health
benefits. Below, we share a bit about the science of gratitude, and some ideas
for living a more grateful life. You
might even want to try starting a new Thanksgiving tradition that involves the
whole family in an experience of gratitude (and all of its benefits)!
WHAT IS GRATITUDE?
Gratitude means thankfulness, or
appreciation of kindness. It is often
acknowledged by doing something kind in return, or doing something kind for
someone else (ie. “paying it forward”).
There are three components of gratitude:
1)
A warm sense of
appreciation for something or somebody
2)
A sense of goodwill toward
that thing or person
3)
Acting positively because
of that appreciation
Gratitude does not have to be toward another person. It can also be a sense of wonder,
thankfulness and appreciation for life, an experience, or a state of being
(such as good health).
PHYSICAL HEALTH BENEFITS
After just 15-20 seconds of focusing on something that makes
you feel grateful, physical changes occur in the body:
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Stress hormones go down.
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Arteries relax, increasing
blood flow to your heart.
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Breath is deeper, bringing
more oxygen to the whole body.
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Energy goes up.
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Faster recovery from
illness or surgery
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Improved survival or slowed
progression of disease
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Better sleep quality
MENTAL HEALTH BENEFITS
There are also changes in the way we feel when we practice a
sense of gratitude, including:
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More alertness, enthusiasm,
determination, attentiveness
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Increased happiness,
optimism, life satisfaction
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Greater progress toward
completing life goals
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Feeling more loved
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Less stress or depression
The nervous system is wired for survival by keeping us
alerted to danger. Holding thoughts of appreciation is harder than holding
thoughts of fear. Because of this, it
takes practice to build gratitude and feel its benefits. It is a little bit like exercising a muscle
to make it stronger.
GRATITUDE RESEARCH
There is a study that has been repeated 3
times with the same results. In the
study, people are divided into 3 groups:
A)
Write down things you are grateful
for
B)
Write down things you find
annoying
C)
Write down things that have
an impact on your life
Group A had higher wellbeing than the other groups, especially Group B. When this continued for 10 weeks, there were
measurable physical and social benefits.
Practicing gratitude just once per week increased happiness by 25% and
the effects lasted several months.
BUT WHAT IF I DON’T HAVE MUCH?
Everyone has something to be grateful for. Beyond meeting our basic needs (food,
shelter, etc), more wealth or more possessions do not lead to greater
happiness. What DOES lead to greater
happiness is gratitude for the things in life that we can’t hold in our hands-
family, friends, health, experiences, abilities, life, or nature. In fact,
life’s greatest challenges can sometimes INCREASE feelings of gratitude. For example, some families who lost their
home during the recent storm are feeling grateful for the people who gave them
immediate shelter. Some people who are living with a serious diagnosis are
grateful for each day of life that they can experience. If a person in your
life is challenging you, you might think of it as an opportunity to become more
patient or understanding.
PRACTICE GRATITUDE
Here are some ideas for things you can do to enhance the
gratitude in your life, not just during the holiday, but all year:
1)
Keep a gratitude
journal. Every day or once each week, spend a few minutes writing down
anything that makes you feel grateful. You can use a special journal or loose
paper. You will start to notice the positive things in your life more easily.
2)
Use visual
reminders. Put post-it notes in places you will see, or set a timer on your
electronic devices for a moment of gratitude.
3)
Make a list. List
the benefits in your life and ask yourself if you take them for granted.
4)
Have a gratitude
partner. If you associate with grateful people, they will influence your
outlook.
5)
Make a public
commitment. If you tell others that you plan to be more grateful, you will
catch yourself before speaking negatively about your life.
6)
Change your
self-talk. You can change your mood by changing the messages you repeat in
your mind. Talk to yourself in a creative, optimistic and appreciative way.
7)
Reframe the
situation. Look at life with a more positive attitude, looking past the
cloud to find the silver lining.
8)
Do for others. Nothing
increases gratitude like giving a lending hand to those in need.
As we enter the holiday season, think about practicing a
sense of gratitude in your life, and with your friends and family. You might find that you have more to be
grateful for than you realize… including the benefits of better health!